I’ll Wait

As much as I love being in love I loathe not being productive while in love.  No matter how good it feels when in love, nothing compares to the feeling of accomplishment and achievement.  The feeling of completing a hard-won task or project is both exhilarating and invigorating.  It motivates me to push harder and ...

Too Cute to Be Single

Let’s be real…at some point in time, you’ve looked in the mirror and thought “I’m way too cute to be single Jesus.” Lol If you won’t admit it, I will because I’ve definitely thought this a few times. I’ve reflected on my morals and accomplishments, and when coupled with my cute smile (lol), I thought that ...

The Lost Art of Pursuit…

🎼🎼 Back in the day when I was young, I'm not a kid anymore but some days I still wish I was a kid again...🎼🎼 Man, I used to love that song! Back in the day girls used to get butterflies when the guy they were crushing on finally approached to ask for their number. When the stares ...

Confidently Single

One of the most important responsibilities we have as women is to guard our hearts. Our goals, hopes and dreams all flow from the well-spring of our hearts (Proverbs 4:23). For this reason, it's no surprise that we often lose our focus when going through a breakup or when dealing with relational challenges. It's difficult to stay focused on ...

It’s Bigger than Sex

Often times, women who have grown up in church attribute every failed relationship to lust and sex. They walk with shame and guilt because they had premarital sex and believe their fairytale love story is forever cursed as a result of their decision.   I know this because for many years I believed the same ...

Waiting With Purpose

Are you just waiting or are you waiting with a purpose? There is such a thing as waiting idly. It’s the kind of waiting you do when you decide to worry or doubt while waiting for tests results or a medical report. It’s also the kind of waiting you do when you choose inaction over being productive. While ...

Guard Your Heart

Sometimes guarding your heart is not allowing your mind to get carried away with thoughts that get ahead of your heart. I believe this happens with women more so than men--but the same holds true for men. As women, our hearts are easily carried away by thoughts of romantic possibilities with a guy we're interested in. He says "hello" and we're ...

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