The Lost Art of Pursuit…

🎼🎼 Back in the day when I was young, I'm not a kid anymore but some days I still wish I was a kid again...🎼🎼 Man, I used to love that song! Back in the day girls used to get butterflies when the guy they were crushing on finally approached to ask for their number. When the stares ...

Confidently Single

One of the most important responsibilities we have as women is to guard our hearts. Our goals, hopes and dreams all flow from the well-spring of our hearts (Proverbs 4:23). For this reason, it's no surprise that we often lose our focus when going through a breakup or when dealing with relational challenges. It's difficult to stay focused on ...

It’s Bigger than Sex

Often times, women who have grown up in church attribute every failed relationship to lust and sex. They walk with shame and guilt because they had premarital sex and believe their fairytale love story is forever cursed as a result of their decision.   I know this because for many years I believed the same ...

Waiting With Purpose

Are you just waiting or are you waiting with a purpose? There is such a thing as waiting idly. It’s the kind of waiting you do when you decide to worry or doubt while waiting for tests results or a medical report. It’s also the kind of waiting you do when you choose inaction over being productive. While ...

Guard Your Heart

Sometimes guarding your heart is not allowing your mind to get carried away with thoughts that get ahead of your heart. I believe this happens with women more so than men--but the same holds true for men. As women, our hearts are easily carried away by thoughts of romantic possibilities with a guy we're interested in. He says "hello" and we're ...

Why I Fell In Love…

"I fell in love with him because of his heart and his character." These are the words I want to share with others when asked why I chose to marry my husband. Now don't get me wrong, of course I want my husband to be tall, extremely handsome, humorous and fun (lol) but more importantly,  I want his ...

When the Struggle Is Real

No matter holy, sanctified, rich or successful you are, there will come a time when le struggle gets absolutely real. The struggle comes not to break us down or to delay our progress but to strengthen and prepare us what is to come. But as beautiful as all of that sounds, none of us care to ...

Do You Want a Husband or a Boyfriend?

Which one is more important--a husband or a boyfriend? It seems like a silly question with an obvious answer but it's a question I once asked myself some time ago.  My thoughts were so consumed with being in a relationship with a particular person.  In my mind, the sooner he was my boyfriend, the closer I'd be to ...

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