7 Reasons to Move On

There's something about an unexpected breakup that tempts you to rethink, reevaluate and reflect on the relationship. What could I have done differently? What if I never said this... What if we never did that... Why didn't I see it coming? For women, it's all about closure and for men, it's just trying to make sense out of losing his ...

You Felt So Dumb…

Let’s be real, it didn’t just happen one time. In fact, it happened several times, and each time you hoped and even prayed the next time would be different. You hoped that he’d actually propose after so many years together. You hoped you’d be the only woman in his life after he said I love you. But that’s not what ...

You Keep Getting Dumped Because…

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I, as much as any other woman, understand the hurt associated with being intimate with someone only to have your heart broken.  I've cried those tears before; and I've cried enough to know that the onus is not just on the guy who broke my heart--the onus is also on me. I am equally responsible for guarding my heart. I am ...

Guard Your Heart

Sometimes guarding your heart is not allowing your mind to get carried away with thoughts that get ahead of your heart. I believe this happens with women more so than men--but the same holds true for men. As women, our hearts are easily carried away by thoughts of romantic possibilities with a guy we're interested in. He says "hello" and we're ...

Mind Your Business: Things single men & women really want you to know

Does my purpose have a clock? Does my destiny have an expiration date? When you talk to me about my hopes, my dreams and my plans, why is it urgent for me to do what you want me to do? Why is it urgent that I stop and slow down, and smell the roses in your garden? Why is ...

Why I Fell In Love…

"I fell in love with him because of his heart and his character." These are the words I want to share with others when asked why I chose to marry my husband. Now don't get me wrong, of course I want my husband to be tall, extremely handsome, humorous and fun (lol) but more importantly,  I want his ...

Coffins

Coffins...when I read this word the first things that come to mind are The Adams Family, dust, and the color black. To be exact, an image of an old black, wooden, dusty coffin with squeaky hinges and a rusty lock pops into my mind--you know like something from an old black & white movie, lol. Anyhow, a ...

I Was So Ready To Be A Wife…

The other day, I happened to be channel surfing when I came across one of America's favorite shows "The Bachelor."  Ordinarily, I would've skipped past The Bachelor but a part of me was unusually curious that evening so I decided to check it out for a bit. For years, I've deliberately ignored The Bachelor and have ...

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