The Lost Art of Pursuit…

🎼🎼 Back in the day when I was young, I'm not a kid anymore but some days I still wish I was a kid again...🎼🎼 Man, I used to love that song! Back in the day girls used to get butterflies when the guy they were crushing on finally approached to ask for their number. When the stares ...

Confidently Single

One of the most important responsibilities we have as women is to guard our hearts. Our goals, hopes and dreams all flow from the well-spring of our hearts (Proverbs 4:23). For this reason, it's no surprise that we often lose our focus when going through a breakup or when dealing with relational challenges. It's difficult to stay focused on ...

It’s Bigger than Sex

Often times, women who have grown up in church attribute every failed relationship to lust and sex. They walk with shame and guilt because they had premarital sex and believe their fairytale love story is forever cursed as a result of their decision.   I know this because for many years I believed the same ...

Waiting With Purpose

Are you just waiting or are you waiting with a purpose? There is such a thing as waiting idly. It’s the kind of waiting you do when you decide to worry or doubt while waiting for tests results or a medical report. It’s also the kind of waiting you do when you choose inaction over being productive. While ...

7 Reasons to Move On

There's something about an unexpected breakup that tempts you to rethink, reevaluate and reflect on the relationship. What could I have done differently? What if I never said this... What if we never did that... Why didn't I see it coming? For women, it's all about closure and for men, it's just trying to make sense out of losing his ...

You Felt So Dumb…

Let’s be real, it didn’t just happen one time. In fact, it happened several times, and each time you hoped and even prayed the next time would be different. You hoped that he’d actually propose after so many years together. You hoped you’d be the only woman in his life after he said I love you. But that’s not what ...

You Keep Getting Dumped Because…

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I, as much as any other woman, understand the hurt associated with being intimate with someone only to have your heart broken.  I've cried those tears before; and I've cried enough to know that the onus is not just on the guy who broke my heart--the onus is also on me. I am equally responsible for guarding my heart. I am ...

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